An ideal and perfect life exists only in movies, novels, and fairy tales. In reality, our life has black and white lanes. We all face tribulations, frustrations, betrayals, and all other different disasters in our life. Usually, youthful idealism gets broken down when something truly terrible happens. Sometimes, it might be the loss of your beloved person, bankruptcy, severe illness, and other things that don't let us be fully happy and satisfied.
People tolerate frustration, depression, and disappointment differently. Some people are patient enough to go through all the heartbreaking life trials. Others break down, sink into severe depressions, and commit suicides. In my opinion, even the strongest people need a professional life coach to guide them during decisive moments in their life. If you aren't sure whether you need a life coach or not, you will find the answer in this blog post. Here are some of the main signs that you need a life coach.
You Have No Vision
Right now, I am not talking about physical vision. Oculists treat vision problems. I am talking about psychological and mental vision. Sometimes, during different stages of your life, you can lose your vision of yourself as a personality in your society. This is a terrible thing. You feel like you are lost and can't find yourself a place in your family, society, city, etc.
Losing a life vision is a life crisis. This means that you have a self-identification and self-actualization problem. Maybe you don't fit your society or community. There might be a lot of other reasons why you have lost your vision. Losing vision is one of the main signs that you urgently need the help of a professional life coach.
Fear is Paralyzing You
People afraid of different things. Sometimes, we afraid of snakes, spiders, darkness, diseases, death, and unpredictability. You might not have a specific phobia, however, there are dozens if not hundreds of different fears that can fully paralyze your mind and psyche. People feal unknown things. People make plans because they are scared of an unpredictable future.
If fear is paralyzing you, then, we will need to deal with it. If left untreated, your fears can result in terrible outcomes such as loneliness, unemployment, suicidal attempts, relationship problems, etc. If your mind is paralyzed by fears, then, you surely need the professional help of an experienced life coach.
You Have Self-Estimation Problems
We are not ideal, and we all have different psychological complexes. I also have loads of complexes, and my self-estimation is not at the highest level. Nowadays, in the era of social media, we are all bombarded by photos and news of celebrities who are immensely rich and physically attractive. Comparing ourselves to them, we might feel somehow inferior. What is more, different psychological and physical traumas may cause self-estimation problems.
If you feel that your self-estimation isn't at a good level, then, you need a professional life coach to fix your thoughts about yourself.
You Are Facing Big Changes
Your life has turning points and transitions. Everything changes. We don't notice minor changes in our life. On the other hand, big changes in our life make us confused, worried, and uncertain. It is good if you can adapt to these changes. Otherwise, people get stressed and depressed when put beyond their comfort zone.
It is extremely difficult to go through serious life changes alone. Most people will need the help of an understanding life coach to deal with big life transitions. This is another big sign that you need a life coach.
You Can't Identify Your Goals
Sometimes, people lose motivation in personal and professional life. The worst scenario is when a person loses the motivation to continue living. This happens not because a person has achieved everything he was dreaming about. Loss of motivation is a sign of psycho-social problems. Due to your environment or your mind settings, you can lose focus and motivation at any point in your life.
If you feel that you have lost your focus and you can't identify your life goals, then, you need the professional help of a good life coach. A life coach will help you identify your life goals and find motivation for further development.
These are some of the major signs that you need a life coach to fix all the mess in your mind and life. You can work hard and try to make your psychoanalysis, but you will eventually fail. Every craft has its own master. When you have a toothache, you will visit a dentist because you can't treat your teeth on your own. A dentist has all the necessary knowledge and tools to fix your teeth. When it comes to the health of your mind and soul, life coaches are owners of this craft. Entrust your life problems to a professional life coach who will help you fix them.
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